Tuesday, June 14, 2011

A Milestone.... and a message

What milestone you may ask? Well one that I never thought I would be so happy about ...EVER..... but my surrogate finally got her cycle yesterday!!! This means we can finally get the calender on how they are going to line us up on our cycle dates and get this show on the road!!!

I will let you guys know when the nurse calls back and we finally have some dates.

In other news, yesterday morning I woke up and rolled over and grabbed my phone (which I do every morning). And I was looking at the emails that came in from overnight. Well to my surprise there was an email from someone named QBrezzy at aol. Now I do not know this person, but man she has a lot of nerve. she proceeded to tell me she thinks it despicable that I am "begging everyone for money" when I am not even willing to work myself. WHAT???? Excuse me??? Did you just send this to ME???

I was so angry, and then hurt and then like who is this? So I wrote her back, but just in case she reads here again. I wanted to just say this.....

You don't know me, and I don't know you. But if you did know me you would KNOW that I work a full time job tirelessly everyday of my life and always have. I also am actively looking for a part-time job and spend my weekends filling out applications for them to try to make this surrogate situation easier on us financially. You have no right, and it is none of your business to even question what I do or whether I have a job or not. And secondly I have NEVER asked a single person for money.... EVER. Some of my friends suggested I put the PayPal button on my blog, and some have even donated to help us- we have spent over $100,000 trying to have a child and that kind of money certainly does not come about with me sitting at home all day eating ice cream.

Please don't ever come back to my blog- this is a place for me and my husband to chronicle our journey to parenthood and for the people who love us to keep up with us.

Thank you to all of you who do love us, support us and p[ray for us. We feel the Lord working in all ways to bring a beautiful outcome out of this pain!

Love you all.....


  1. YaY for cycle day! I can't understand why people feel the need to judge you for the things you write on your blog. Blogs are supposed to be a place where you can be completely honest without fearing judgement from the people around you. If people don't like what they read then they should quit reading that blog. I'm sure no one was holding a gun to her head forcing her to read.

  2. I lurk. I have lurked since last year when you went private, and since I lurk, I didn't ask to be added - I just happened to try your link again one day and it worked...so I follow your journey. I thought that I would've offered to carry for you if I were closer (I'm in SC), and I am hopeful that your dreams will come true.

    Please let that person's vile comments roll off your back (as best you can). There are mean people in the world, but thankfully there are more good people than mean.

    There are many more of us "unknowns" who are pulling for you, I'm sure.

  3. Heather, please dont waste your energy on this person! She obviously knows nothing about your situation. Keep your head high and keep reaching for your goal, TO BE A MOM. Praying for you guys everyday!! Much love janay

  4. You go Heather. If that Dork would PAY ATTENTION to your past posts, she would see that you obviously WORK. You've talked about it many times. Wishing you the best.

  5. It's difficult when people write rude comment directed towards you that are insulting, even if/and maybe even especially if they do not know you personally.

    I had this happen once, I decided to just delete the comment and get over it. It hurts, but you just have to rise above. Praying for you!