Well as the title of thispost you can tell today was not what I had planned. The Kell tests came back, and the biological mother of the embryos is Kell + and the father is Kell negative. So all that means is that we can NOT put our 4 donated embryos into our surrogate. UGH UGH UGH UGH. Remember she makes antibodies aganist the Kell protein, so she would unknowingly attack the embryos.
So now what?????? I have no idea! I am so upset, deflated and miserable right now. Why is God allowing us to suffer so much? Some people get pregnant after 1 or 2 rounds of IVF- and we are willing to go through all of this- and to still have it stripped away WHY????
I feel like a kid in line watching everyone else get their candy or their perfect Christmas gift, and there I am when they say "I'm sorry I didnt bring enough, we are one short" and there I am with empty aching arms. Where's mine????
I don't really have any thing more to say, I am still in shock really.
Please pray for me. I really need it today.
So now what?????? I have no idea! I am so upset, deflated and miserable right now. Why is God allowing us to suffer so much? Some people get pregnant after 1 or 2 rounds of IVF- and we are willing to go through all of this- and to still have it stripped away WHY????
I feel like a kid in line watching everyone else get their candy or their perfect Christmas gift, and there I am when they say "I'm sorry I didnt bring enough, we are one short" and there I am with empty aching arms. Where's mine????
I don't really have any thing more to say, I am still in shock really.
Please pray for me. I really need it today.
Oh no, no, no. I'm sooooo sorry sweetie. I know hearing "I'm sorry" isn't what you really need or want. I just don't know what to say. You don't deserve to go through so much. Man....not fair. I'll be praying for you. ((HUGS))
ReplyDeleteOh, no! I am so, so sorry... I will be praying for you and your husband as you decide how to move forward from here. (((HUGS)))
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear this sad news...............you have my prayers for guidance on where to go from here......surely you must have thought of this as a possibility????? Why don't you consider having the adopted embies implanted into your own womb as soon as is practical? Again, so sorry, and so sad for you both.
ReplyDeletePrayers coming your way. So, so sorry for this devastating news. :(
ReplyDeleteOh my heart goes out to you. I am praying for you my dear. He has a path for you - we may not understand it right now, but trust in him. XOXO, Laura B.
ReplyDeleteYou are in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteHeather ~ My heart goes out to you. May the peace of God guard your heart and mind.
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I'm so sorry. Who can understand all of this?? Thinking of you today and every day until you find peace.
ReplyDeletePraying very hard for you!!
ReplyDeleteSo very sorry and heart broken for you!
ReplyDeleteYou are right - it just is not fair.
Hoping all your dreams come true very very soon!